Hi angel123. To be helped you have to be reachable and teachable. You can see by my posts that I mentor people. I have fun when I do what I do, or I do not do it.
I found the posts on this site are not ment to lead you the wrong way. They are straight forward and if they are not, the other members of the forum offer their opinion.
You write, "I am open to suggestions. No need to give your email. By not giving an e-mail that is a valid e-mail address, angel123alene@aol.com" you avoid suggestions. Keep reading, people on this site love to help people.