Carolyn,
If you haven't yet, look on the forums for a post by Jacob J.
(go to the forums "Everything Else". Look for the "Word Association Game", and the first post is by Jacob)
He's the forum owner. Send him a Private Message (PM) ask him NICELY if he would please change your Username - and include what you want for your username in the private message.
As FFries stated - when you signed up, you used your real name as your username.
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